Egy nap felismerted,
mi a dolgod,
és hozzá is fogtál,
bár körülötted mindenki
jobban tudta, mi jobb neked,
bár az egész ház remegni kezdett,
s a régi béklyót érezted a lábadon.
"Ments meg!"
- kiáltozta mindenki.
De te csak mentél tovább.
Tudtad, mi a dolgod,
bár a szél mindenbe
belekotort görcsös ujjaival,
és ők szörnyen búsultak.
Már így is későre járt,
s a vad éjszakában
az út telis-tele volt
letört ágakkal és kövekkel.
Ám mikor elhalkult a hangjuk,
szép lassan átszűrődött
a csillagok fénye a felhőkön,
s meghallottál egy új hangot,
lassanként felismerted
benne a saját hangodat,
amely mindig veled volt,
amikor egyre mélyebbre
hatoltál a világ szövetében,
eltökélve, hogy megteszed
az egyetlen dolgot, amit megtehetsz,
hogy megmented az egyetlen életet,
amelyet megmenthetsz.
Mary Oliver
Wednesday, December 31, 2008
make a life
"Having a purpose is the difference between
making a living and making a life."
Tom Thiss
making a living and making a life."
Tom Thiss
Monday, December 29, 2008
mindenre képes vagy
Az ember bármire képes, bármit képes megtenni. Csak egy test vagy a sok közül, és bened van minden lehetőség. Csak rajtad múlik,h a képességeidet mire használod fel és mely képességek jönek elő belőled. Bármit megtehetsz. Csak ne félj tőle. Benned van a lehetőség,h megvalósítsd az álmaidat. Ha akarod, tégy úgy, valósítsd meg. Meg van rá a lehetőség, csak hidd el. És mindenre képes vagy.
Ne foglald a helyet
Vannak emberek, akik szinte semmire sem emlékeznek, s ezáltal szánalmasak mások szemében. Pusztítják magukat, mert nem akarnak szembenézni a valósággal. Észre sem veszik,h elpocsékolják az életüket, pedig az olyan,mintha csak foglalnád a helyet a tömött buszon pedig csak céltalanul szálltál fel.
Te ne tegyél így. Ne csak foglald a helyet itt a földön. Hasznosítsad magad és az életed, tegyél a világ hasznára. Légy hasznos.
Te ne tegyél így. Ne csak foglald a helyet itt a földön. Hasznosítsad magad és az életed, tegyél a világ hasznára. Légy hasznos.
The pine tree at St. Martin
On Christmas Eve, the parish priest of the little village of St. Martin, in the French Pyrenees, was getting ready to celebrate Mass when he began to smell a delicious perfume. It was winter, the flowers had disappeared a long time ago – and yet there was this pleasant smell as if springtime had appeared out of season.
Intrigued, he went outside to look for the cause of such a marvel, and came across a boy sitting in front of the school door. By his side was a kind of golden Christmas tree.
“But what a beautiful tree!” said the vicar. “It seems to have touched the sky, for it gives off such a divine scent! And it’s made of pure gold! Where did you find it?”
The young man did not seem very happy at what the priest had said.
“It’s true that what I carry with me was growing heavier and heavier as I went along, and the leaves did get harder. But it can’t be gold, and I’m afraid of what my parents are going to say.”
The boy went on to tell his story:
“This morning I left to go to the big city of Tarbes with the money that my mother gave me to buy a nice Christmas tree. But when I was going through a village I happened to see a lonely old woman who had no family to spend the great feast of Christianity with. I gave her some money for her supper, because I was sure that I could get a discount on the tree I was going to buy.
“When I reached Tarbes, I passed in front of the big prison and there was a bunch of people waiting outside to visit the inmates. They were all sad, for they would spend the night far from their beloved ones. I heard some of them commenting that they did not even have enough to buy a slice of Christmas cake. Right there and then, moved by the romanticism of people my age, I decided that I would share my money with those people, who needed it more than I did. I would keep just a very small amount for lunch; the florist is a friend of my family and he would surely give me the tree, and then I could work for him all next week to pay off my debt.
“However, on reaching the market I found out that the florist I knew had not come to work. I tried as hard as I could to find someone who would lend me money to buy the tree elsewhere, but it was all in vain.
“I convinced myself that I would be able to think better what to do if I had something to eat. When I approached a bar, a foreign-looking boy asked me if I could spare him some money, because he had not eaten in two days. Since I imagined that the child Jesus must once have been hungry, I handed him the little money that I had left, and returned home. On the way back I broke a branch off a pine tree; I tried to make it look nice by trimming it, but it just grew as hard as metal and it’s far from being the Christmas tree that my mother is expecting.”
“My dear boy,” said the priest, “the perfume of this tree leaves no doubt whatever that it has been touched by Heaven. Let me tell you the rest of its story:
“As soon as you left that lonely old woman, she immediately asked the Virgin Mary, a mother like herself, to return to you such an unexpected blessing. The parents of the prisoners were certain that they had come upon an angel, and prayed thanking the angels for the Christmas cakes that they bought. The boy that you met gave thanks to God for satisfying his hunger.
“The Virgin, the angels and Jesus heard the prayer of those who had been helped. When you broke the branch off the pine tree, the Virgin bathed it in the perfume of mercy. As you walked along, the angels touched the leaves and they turned to gold. Finally, when everything was ready, Jesus looked upon the work and blessed it, and from then on, whoever touches this Christmas tree will have their sins forgiven and their wishes fulfilled.”
And so it was. The legend goes that the sacred pine tree is still there in St. Martin, but that its force is so great that all those help their brothers on Christmas Eve, however far they may be from the little village in the Pyrenees, are blessed by it.
Intrigued, he went outside to look for the cause of such a marvel, and came across a boy sitting in front of the school door. By his side was a kind of golden Christmas tree.
“But what a beautiful tree!” said the vicar. “It seems to have touched the sky, for it gives off such a divine scent! And it’s made of pure gold! Where did you find it?”
The young man did not seem very happy at what the priest had said.
“It’s true that what I carry with me was growing heavier and heavier as I went along, and the leaves did get harder. But it can’t be gold, and I’m afraid of what my parents are going to say.”
The boy went on to tell his story:
“This morning I left to go to the big city of Tarbes with the money that my mother gave me to buy a nice Christmas tree. But when I was going through a village I happened to see a lonely old woman who had no family to spend the great feast of Christianity with. I gave her some money for her supper, because I was sure that I could get a discount on the tree I was going to buy.
“When I reached Tarbes, I passed in front of the big prison and there was a bunch of people waiting outside to visit the inmates. They were all sad, for they would spend the night far from their beloved ones. I heard some of them commenting that they did not even have enough to buy a slice of Christmas cake. Right there and then, moved by the romanticism of people my age, I decided that I would share my money with those people, who needed it more than I did. I would keep just a very small amount for lunch; the florist is a friend of my family and he would surely give me the tree, and then I could work for him all next week to pay off my debt.
“However, on reaching the market I found out that the florist I knew had not come to work. I tried as hard as I could to find someone who would lend me money to buy the tree elsewhere, but it was all in vain.
“I convinced myself that I would be able to think better what to do if I had something to eat. When I approached a bar, a foreign-looking boy asked me if I could spare him some money, because he had not eaten in two days. Since I imagined that the child Jesus must once have been hungry, I handed him the little money that I had left, and returned home. On the way back I broke a branch off a pine tree; I tried to make it look nice by trimming it, but it just grew as hard as metal and it’s far from being the Christmas tree that my mother is expecting.”
“My dear boy,” said the priest, “the perfume of this tree leaves no doubt whatever that it has been touched by Heaven. Let me tell you the rest of its story:
“As soon as you left that lonely old woman, she immediately asked the Virgin Mary, a mother like herself, to return to you such an unexpected blessing. The parents of the prisoners were certain that they had come upon an angel, and prayed thanking the angels for the Christmas cakes that they bought. The boy that you met gave thanks to God for satisfying his hunger.
“The Virgin, the angels and Jesus heard the prayer of those who had been helped. When you broke the branch off the pine tree, the Virgin bathed it in the perfume of mercy. As you walked along, the angels touched the leaves and they turned to gold. Finally, when everything was ready, Jesus looked upon the work and blessed it, and from then on, whoever touches this Christmas tree will have their sins forgiven and their wishes fulfilled.”
And so it was. The legend goes that the sacred pine tree is still there in St. Martin, but that its force is so great that all those help their brothers on Christmas Eve, however far they may be from the little village in the Pyrenees, are blessed by it.
Explore your fears
"Fear is a question: What are you afraid of, and why? Just as the seed of health is in illness, because illness contains information, our fears are a treasure house of self-knowledge if we explore them."
-- Marilyn Ferguson
"What is needed, rather than running away or controlling or suppressing or any other resistance, is understanding fear; that means, watch it, learn about it, come directly into contact with it. We are to learn about fear, not how to escape from it."
-- Jiddu Krishnamurti
-- Marilyn Ferguson
"What is needed, rather than running away or controlling or suppressing or any other resistance, is understanding fear; that means, watch it, learn about it, come directly into contact with it. We are to learn about fear, not how to escape from it."
-- Jiddu Krishnamurti
Sunday, December 28, 2008
Wanna go my way
Legszívesebben már jó messze lennék innen, egy meleg vidéken, ahol hegyek és völgyek váltakoznak, kis patakok vannak a környéken és kicsit nagyobb távolságban pedig az óceán partján sétálhatok. Bár már ott lehetnék, a mi félig tél félig vmi más karácsonyi időszakunkban.
Nem jó itthon lenni, menekülni szeretnék innen, nagyon sok vita és veszekedés van itt, bármit is teszünk, sajnos anya elég érdekes módon energiavámpírkodik. De az 1. sz. álmom megvalósítása nem egy ilyen menekülés. Márciusban már biztos kint leszek és vhol úgy érzem,h vmi nagyon fontos találkozás vár ott rám. Nem tudom,h milyen értelemben és kivel, de így érzem. már azóta,h jött az első jel (mármint ebben az évben),h mennem kell.
Furcsa,h nem beszélek erről az álomról itt nyíltan. Vhol még félek kimondani,h mi is a tervem. De haladok a megvalósítás útján és nincsen abban kétségem,h jövőre megvalósítom az álmomat.
Nem jó itthon lenni, menekülni szeretnék innen, nagyon sok vita és veszekedés van itt, bármit is teszünk, sajnos anya elég érdekes módon energiavámpírkodik. De az 1. sz. álmom megvalósítása nem egy ilyen menekülés. Márciusban már biztos kint leszek és vhol úgy érzem,h vmi nagyon fontos találkozás vár ott rám. Nem tudom,h milyen értelemben és kivel, de így érzem. már azóta,h jött az első jel (mármint ebben az évben),h mennem kell.
Furcsa,h nem beszélek erről az álomról itt nyíltan. Vhol még félek kimondani,h mi is a tervem. De haladok a megvalósítás útján és nincsen abban kétségem,h jövőre megvalósítom az álmomat.
Live now
We lose the power of the moment because we're so rarely in it. We're reliving the past or speculating about the future. We continue to believe that tomorrow's the day when I'll be more capable, more wealthy, more fit and more loving. Meanwhile, I'm just putting in time, dreaming of better things but not making any concrete move to realize them.
When you find yourself thinking of the future or the past, bring your awareness into the present moment. Really experience how you feel and what’s happening around you, without judgment. If we can treasure each moment, our lives will be rich, no matter what we have accomplished.
"If, before going to bed every night, you will tear a page from the calendar, and remark, 'there goes another day of my life, never to return,' you will become time conscious."
-- A. B. Zu Tavern
When you find yourself thinking of the future or the past, bring your awareness into the present moment. Really experience how you feel and what’s happening around you, without judgment. If we can treasure each moment, our lives will be rich, no matter what we have accomplished.
"If, before going to bed every night, you will tear a page from the calendar, and remark, 'there goes another day of my life, never to return,' you will become time conscious."
-- A. B. Zu Tavern
Saturday, December 27, 2008
Hangos ima
Nem hangosan kell imádkozni, hanem csak hallgatni az isteni sugallatot, mint ahogy sok törzs is teszi. Ha odafigyelsz akkor észreveszed, hogy a Hang az mindig jön. Valamilyen formában, csakját meg is kell azt hallani. Ez a nagy feladat. Ha pedig meghallottuk azt, akkor annak megfelelően is kell cselekedni.
Illúzió
Nagyon sok mindent feladunk egy illúzióért. Azt hisszük el, amit el akarunk hinni, amit nagyon szeretnénk elérni.
Az ilúzió elérése sokba kerül, sok mindent fel kell áldozni érte, és nem tart örökké. De azért a rövid időért is megéri.
Az ilúzió elérése sokba kerül, sok mindent fel kell áldozni érte, és nem tart örökké. De azért a rövid időért is megéri.
What is your body saying?
"Your body is the ground and metaphor of your life, the expression of your existence. It is your Bible, your encyclopedia, your life story. Everything that happens to you is stored and reflected in your body. In the marriage of flesh and spirit divorce is impossible."
-- Gabrielle Roth
Scan your body with your awareness. Are you experiencing any aches and pains? Any stiffness?
What might your body be trying to tell you about how you are living your life?
-- Gabrielle Roth
Scan your body with your awareness. Are you experiencing any aches and pains? Any stiffness?
What might your body be trying to tell you about how you are living your life?
Friday, December 26, 2008
live your feelings
Néha jó a sebeket nyalogatni, hozzátartozik az élethez, annak is időt kell adni. a gödröt is meg kell élni ahhoz,h utána tudjad értékelni a hegyről a kilátást.
Néha ilyenkor szeretnénk látni,h mi lesz majd az eredménye, hova vezet minden. Mi lesz a jövöben, miért is kell szenvednünk, de nem is kell ismernünk. Meg nem is lehetünk biztosak semmiben ami a jövőt illeti, nem tőlünk függnek a dolgok.
Az én lelkem reménykedik a szép kifejletben, bár lehet,h nem sok esélye van, de mégis jó boldogságba ringatni magam.
nem tudom,h meddig lesz még ilyen a helyzet, nem is érdekel, most már nem akarom elfojtani az érzéseimet és inkább megélem a fájdalmat is, semminth elfojtsak bármit is. bár egy ideig azt tettem,de nem vitt semmilyen eredményre. inkább megélem az érzéseimet és inkább szenvedek,ha azt kell, semminth egyszer majd késöbb törjön fel a fájdalom.
"The key is to not resist or rebel against emotions or to try to get around them by devising all sorts of tricks; but to accept them directly, as they are."
-- Takahisa Kora
Néha ilyenkor szeretnénk látni,h mi lesz majd az eredménye, hova vezet minden. Mi lesz a jövöben, miért is kell szenvednünk, de nem is kell ismernünk. Meg nem is lehetünk biztosak semmiben ami a jövőt illeti, nem tőlünk függnek a dolgok.
Az én lelkem reménykedik a szép kifejletben, bár lehet,h nem sok esélye van, de mégis jó boldogságba ringatni magam.
nem tudom,h meddig lesz még ilyen a helyzet, nem is érdekel, most már nem akarom elfojtani az érzéseimet és inkább megélem a fájdalmat is, semminth elfojtsak bármit is. bár egy ideig azt tettem,de nem vitt semmilyen eredményre. inkább megélem az érzéseimet és inkább szenvedek,ha azt kell, semminth egyszer majd késöbb törjön fel a fájdalom.
"The key is to not resist or rebel against emotions or to try to get around them by devising all sorts of tricks; but to accept them directly, as they are."
-- Takahisa Kora
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Imagine
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jEOkxRLzBf0
Imagine all the people living life in peace. It would be so much better world. Why cant we just live in peace, everyone could be calm and tranquil. And joy and happyness could be around us.
Imagine all the people living life in peace. It would be so much better world. Why cant we just live in peace, everyone could be calm and tranquil. And joy and happyness could be around us.
im outta time
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R5mFKeL67Dk
Here is a song
It reminds me of when we were young
Looking back at all the things we've done
You gotta keep on, keepin on
Out to sea, it's the only place
I Honestly
Can get myself some piece of mind
You know it's gettin' hard to fly
If I'm to fall
Would you be there to applaud?
Or would you hide behind them all?
'Cause if I have to go,
In my heart you'll grow
And that's where you belong...
If I'm to fall
Would you be there to applaud?
Or would you hide behind them all?
'Cause if I have to go,
In my heart you'll grow
And that's where you belong...
If I'm to fall
Would you be there to applaud?
Or would you hide behind them all?
'Cause if I have to go
In my heart you'll grow
And that's where you belong...
Guess I'm outta time...
I'm outta time...
I'm outta time
I'm outta time
I'm outta time
Here is a song
It reminds me of when we were young
Looking back at all the things we've done
You gotta keep on, keepin on
Out to sea, it's the only place
I Honestly
Can get myself some piece of mind
You know it's gettin' hard to fly
If I'm to fall
Would you be there to applaud?
Or would you hide behind them all?
'Cause if I have to go,
In my heart you'll grow
And that's where you belong...
If I'm to fall
Would you be there to applaud?
Or would you hide behind them all?
'Cause if I have to go,
In my heart you'll grow
And that's where you belong...
If I'm to fall
Would you be there to applaud?
Or would you hide behind them all?
'Cause if I have to go
In my heart you'll grow
And that's where you belong...
Guess I'm outta time...
I'm outta time...
I'm outta time
I'm outta time
I'm outta time
miért nem bízunk abban ami belülről fakad?
Jobban bízunk abban, amit utánzunk, mint ami belőlünk fakad. Nem
tudunk maradéktalanul hinni abban, ami bennünk gyökerezik. A
bizonytalanság gyötrő érzésének oka az, hogy egyedül állunk. Amikor
utánzunk, már népes társaságunk van.
Hoffer, Eric
Sajnos, nagyon igaza van. én magam is gyakran inkább hittem annak, amit más mondott nekem a benső hang helyett. pedig aki tanácsokkal lát el téged a kertépítést illetően, az a saját kertében nem tesz semmit. de végül megmutatkozott az,h a bensőmnek volt igaza, mert hibát hibára halmoztam. és annak ellenére,h beláttam,h az intuícióra igenis hallgatni kell, akkor is nehéz volt a következő alkalommal az érzéseimre figyelni, és az intuíció alapján meghozni a döntést.
tudunk maradéktalanul hinni abban, ami bennünk gyökerezik. A
bizonytalanság gyötrő érzésének oka az, hogy egyedül állunk. Amikor
utánzunk, már népes társaságunk van.
Hoffer, Eric
Sajnos, nagyon igaza van. én magam is gyakran inkább hittem annak, amit más mondott nekem a benső hang helyett. pedig aki tanácsokkal lát el téged a kertépítést illetően, az a saját kertében nem tesz semmit. de végül megmutatkozott az,h a bensőmnek volt igaza, mert hibát hibára halmoztam. és annak ellenére,h beláttam,h az intuícióra igenis hallgatni kell, akkor is nehéz volt a következő alkalommal az érzéseimre figyelni, és az intuíció alapján meghozni a döntést.
mi is igazán hiba?
Minden esemény nyomot hagy bennünk, de csak akkor válik tapasztalattá, ha feldolgozzuk és megemésztjük.
Seabury, David
A szavak olyanok, mint a napsugár. Minél koncentráltabbak, annál mélyebbre hatolnak.
M. Dale Baughman
A pénz nem változtatja meg az embereket. Ha valaki természeténél fogva önző, arrogáns vagy kapzsi, a pénz csupán kihozza belőle ezeket a vonásokat.
Ford, Henry
Csak az nem követ el hibát, aki nem csinál semmit - és ez a legnagyobb hiba, amit ember elkövethet!
Reilly, William J.
Az életben a siker az elfogadással kezdődik. Fogadd el a dolgokat,
melyeken nem tudsz változtatni. Aztán kezdj változtatni azokon,
amelyeken tudsz. Vagyis változtass magadon!
Ries, Al és Trout, Jack kortárs amerikai szerzők
Képtelenek vagyunk mozgósítani az akaratot, ha előbb a képzelet nem
jelenít meg egy világos célt. Az ember nem képes általában akarni -
az akarat csak akkor működik, ha egy konkrét valamire irányul.
Brooks, Harry
Seabury, David
A szavak olyanok, mint a napsugár. Minél koncentráltabbak, annál mélyebbre hatolnak.
M. Dale Baughman
A pénz nem változtatja meg az embereket. Ha valaki természeténél fogva önző, arrogáns vagy kapzsi, a pénz csupán kihozza belőle ezeket a vonásokat.
Ford, Henry
Csak az nem követ el hibát, aki nem csinál semmit - és ez a legnagyobb hiba, amit ember elkövethet!
Reilly, William J.
Az életben a siker az elfogadással kezdődik. Fogadd el a dolgokat,
melyeken nem tudsz változtatni. Aztán kezdj változtatni azokon,
amelyeken tudsz. Vagyis változtass magadon!
Ries, Al és Trout, Jack kortárs amerikai szerzők
Képtelenek vagyunk mozgósítani az akaratot, ha előbb a képzelet nem
jelenít meg egy világos célt. Az ember nem képes általában akarni -
az akarat csak akkor működik, ha egy konkrét valamire irányul.
Brooks, Harry
furcsa faj
Furcsa faj vagyunk. Állandóan azon fáradozunk, hogy megmásszuk a siker lépcsőfokait, hogy aztán a pénzünkön olyan dolgokat vegyünk, amikre nincs szükségünk, és olyan emberekre tegyünk benyomást, akiket utálunk.
Peter, Laurence J. (1919-1990), kanadai szerző
Peter, Laurence J. (1919-1990), kanadai szerző
a víz mindig lefelé folyik
Nem változtathatunk azon, hogy a víz mindig lefelé folyik, de
tanulmányozhatjuk a sodrását, és ahelyett, hogy próbálnánk ellene
szegülni, kihasználhatjuk célunk érdekében. Ez az alkalmazkodás
törvénye.
Elmer Wheeler
tanulmányozhatjuk a sodrását, és ahelyett, hogy próbálnánk ellene
szegülni, kihasználhatjuk célunk érdekében. Ez az alkalmazkodás
törvénye.
Elmer Wheeler
Legyen barátod az idő
Megszülettél, és amikor eljön a pillanat, vendégeskedésed befejeződik
e bolygón. E két pillanatot nem határozhatod meg, ám amit közöttük
teszel, abban az Idő lehet a barátod és lehet az ellenséged. Intézd
úgy, hogy a barátod legyen!
Frank Crane
e bolygón. E két pillanatot nem határozhatod meg, ám amit közöttük
teszel, abban az Idő lehet a barátod és lehet az ellenséged. Intézd
úgy, hogy a barátod legyen!
Frank Crane
Looking for safety?
"Security is when everything is settled, when nothing can happen to you; security is the denial of life."
-- Germaine Greer
Our personality likes to be in control. It likes to know how things are and what’s going to happen. Underlying this desire for stability and predictability is a deep fear that the world is a dangerous place. The personality fears it will not survive without continually being on guard.
The truth is: we cannot control what happens in life. And under the natural law of attraction, we tend to attract to us what we focus on. EXPLORE SUBSTITUTING TRUST FOR FEAR and the world becomes a gentler, happier place.
-- Germaine Greer
Our personality likes to be in control. It likes to know how things are and what’s going to happen. Underlying this desire for stability and predictability is a deep fear that the world is a dangerous place. The personality fears it will not survive without continually being on guard.
The truth is: we cannot control what happens in life. And under the natural law of attraction, we tend to attract to us what we focus on. EXPLORE SUBSTITUTING TRUST FOR FEAR and the world becomes a gentler, happier place.
mirror
OUR WORLD MIRRORS WHO WE ARE BACK TO US. When we get upset by something outside of us, our reaction shows us that we have an inner wound to be healed.
Feel your emotions
"The key is to not resist or rebel against emotions or to try to get around them by devising all sorts of tricks; but to accept them directly, as they are."
-- Takahisa Kora
Emotions are energy in motion. They bring us information if we are willing to experience them. Unfortunately, many of us are afraid of the energy of emotions and so we automatically resist them. And when we refuse to experience our emotions, we block them up. They become trapped and that entrapment drains our energy and brings continuing discomfort.
Don't let emotions push you into action or reaction. Just STOP and PAY ATTENTION. Allow them to be and to speak to you. Once they are acknowledged, their energy is released.
"Instead of resisting any emotion, the best way to dispel it is to enter it fully, embrace it and see through your resistance."
-- Deepak Chopra
"We have to become more conscious of our feeling-world. By learning to identify the ‘emotional baggage’ and manage our feeling-world reactions, we can view life based on current information instead of being held captive by our past."
-- Doc Childre
-- Takahisa Kora
Emotions are energy in motion. They bring us information if we are willing to experience them. Unfortunately, many of us are afraid of the energy of emotions and so we automatically resist them. And when we refuse to experience our emotions, we block them up. They become trapped and that entrapment drains our energy and brings continuing discomfort.
Don't let emotions push you into action or reaction. Just STOP and PAY ATTENTION. Allow them to be and to speak to you. Once they are acknowledged, their energy is released.
"Instead of resisting any emotion, the best way to dispel it is to enter it fully, embrace it and see through your resistance."
-- Deepak Chopra
"We have to become more conscious of our feeling-world. By learning to identify the ‘emotional baggage’ and manage our feeling-world reactions, we can view life based on current information instead of being held captive by our past."
-- Doc Childre
Saturday, December 20, 2008
más szinten rezgek
egyik barátnőm azt állitja,h mióta visszajöttem a caminoról, más szinten rezgek. Vhol igaza van,valóban annyira megnyugodtam és harmóniába kerültem magammal. Olyan dolgokat mondok teljes meggyőződésből,amin néha magam is meglepődöm. Lélek, elme és psziché összhangja.
Friday, December 19, 2008
orange girl
everything is stored up inside you somewhere.
there is such a thing as personal space. do you respect that of others?
He, who never lives for the moment, never lives. so what of you?
you should never be afraid to speakyour mind.
dont buy everything people tell to you. save some criticism inside.
i could no longer tell what was imagination and what was reality; perhaps the borderline between them didnt exist anymore.
what is a person? are we nothing but dust that is whipped up and spread to the winds?
what is this great fairytale we live in and which each of us is only permitted to experience for such a short time?
The physical development of human beings necessarily had to precede the psychological.
wasnt the world just one enormous fairytale?
There is so very much we leave behind.we all live in one great fairytale that nobody understands.
If you had the choice as stardust would you have chosen to live a life on earth at some point. or would you have refused tojoin in the game because you didnt like the rules? In choosing to live, you also choose to die.
If i'd chosen never to set foot inside the great fairytale, i'd never have known what i'd lost.
When the head is full of weighty thoughts, you can either say a few words or keep silent.
We are all each others illusions and angels.
there is such a thing as personal space. do you respect that of others?
He, who never lives for the moment, never lives. so what of you?
you should never be afraid to speakyour mind.
dont buy everything people tell to you. save some criticism inside.
i could no longer tell what was imagination and what was reality; perhaps the borderline between them didnt exist anymore.
what is a person? are we nothing but dust that is whipped up and spread to the winds?
what is this great fairytale we live in and which each of us is only permitted to experience for such a short time?
The physical development of human beings necessarily had to precede the psychological.
wasnt the world just one enormous fairytale?
There is so very much we leave behind.we all live in one great fairytale that nobody understands.
If you had the choice as stardust would you have chosen to live a life on earth at some point. or would you have refused tojoin in the game because you didnt like the rules? In choosing to live, you also choose to die.
If i'd chosen never to set foot inside the great fairytale, i'd never have known what i'd lost.
When the head is full of weighty thoughts, you can either say a few words or keep silent.
We are all each others illusions and angels.
Úgy élj,h visszanézhess.
Úgy élj,h visszanézhess.
Ne haraggal, hanem örömmel forgathasd át emlékeidet visszafelé.
Nehogy sajnálkoznod kelljen...
Okosan élj. De főleg szépen.
Gazdagon, ne a szó anyagi értelmében, hanem szellemiekben.
Ahogy a vonuló vadak hagynak nyomot maguk után, úgy hagyj te is.
Hogy rád találjanak,ha keresnek.
Hogy rád találhasson,aki keres.
Hogy ne felejsték el a vonulásodat.
Ne haraggal, hanem örömmel forgathasd át emlékeidet visszafelé.
Nehogy sajnálkoznod kelljen...
Okosan élj. De főleg szépen.
Gazdagon, ne a szó anyagi értelmében, hanem szellemiekben.
Ahogy a vonuló vadak hagynak nyomot maguk után, úgy hagyj te is.
Hogy rád találjanak,ha keresnek.
Hogy rád találhasson,aki keres.
Hogy ne felejsték el a vonulásodat.
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
Miért a munka az első?
Miért mondják azt,h nálam a munka az első? Ez nem igaz. Amikor dolgozom, amikor bent vagyok az irodában, akkor n em nagyon tudok mással foglalkozni, leblokkol teljesen a bentlét, még beszélni se tudok rendesen a szüleimmel. Ez nem jelenti azt,h munka lenne az első számomra, ugye???
Take the time to really see
"Do yourself a favor as you walk through life: Slow down and take the time to really see. Take a moment to see what is going on around you right now, right where you are. You may be missing something wonderful."
Coelho
Coelho
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
hologram
"From a hologrammatic viewpoint, ...you are one little physical image that reflects all of humanity when projected spiritually upon the cosmic screen."
-- Wayne Dyer
Everything is connected. The universe is a hologram where every part contains the whole. Outside echoes the inside. The lower is a reflection of the higher. The other is a reflection of you. We are all a microcosm of each other. The big picture is within us and even our cells.
Be open to see the interconnections, influences and inter-relationships of things.
-- Wayne Dyer
Everything is connected. The universe is a hologram where every part contains the whole. Outside echoes the inside. The lower is a reflection of the higher. The other is a reflection of you. We are all a microcosm of each other. The big picture is within us and even our cells.
Be open to see the interconnections, influences and inter-relationships of things.
Monday, December 15, 2008
You are worthy
"A person's worth is contingent upon who he is, not upon what he does, or how much he has. The worth of a person, or a thing, or an idea, is in being, not in doing, not in having."
-- Alice Mary Hilton
As a human being, as spirit manifested in form, you are innately worthy. Your worthiness does not have to be strengthened or improved. However, you may not PERCEIVE yourself to be worthy.
If you doubt your self-worth, consciously or unconsciously, you will limit the good things you will allow into your life.
Do you consider yourself worthy? It may help to answer these questions:
- Do you find it easier to give than to receive?
- Do you have as much money as you would like?
- Do you feel driven to improve yourself?
- Do you value other people's time more highly than your own?
- How would you feel if someone offered to pay you a salary of $1 million/year?
If you find you lack self-worth, don't despair. Just being aware of your self-worth issues will help you let them go.
"Every achiever that I have ever met says, ‘My life turned around when I began to believe in me.’"
-- Dr. Robert H. Schuller
"We cannot achieve more in life than what we believe in our heart of hearts we deserve to have."
-- James R. Ball
-- Alice Mary Hilton
As a human being, as spirit manifested in form, you are innately worthy. Your worthiness does not have to be strengthened or improved. However, you may not PERCEIVE yourself to be worthy.
If you doubt your self-worth, consciously or unconsciously, you will limit the good things you will allow into your life.
Do you consider yourself worthy? It may help to answer these questions:
- Do you find it easier to give than to receive?
- Do you have as much money as you would like?
- Do you feel driven to improve yourself?
- Do you value other people's time more highly than your own?
- How would you feel if someone offered to pay you a salary of $1 million/year?
If you find you lack self-worth, don't despair. Just being aware of your self-worth issues will help you let them go.
"Every achiever that I have ever met says, ‘My life turned around when I began to believe in me.’"
-- Dr. Robert H. Schuller
"We cannot achieve more in life than what we believe in our heart of hearts we deserve to have."
-- James R. Ball
Gáz van
Nagy gáz van arra jöttem rá ma. Káromkodtam ezerrel bent az irodában azért, mert az ügyfél ismételten nem a kérdéseinkre válaszolt, és terelt és hülyének néz minket...
De ezen miért kell annyira kiakadnom? Miért nem tudom ezt csak úgy tudomásul venni és csinálni a dolgomat? Miért húz ez le? Miért megyek kómásként az irodában és miért nincsen semmi kedvem elindulni az irodába, és visszajönni ebédből? Miért nem tudom csak úgy élvezni az életet, ahogyan van?
De ezen miért kell annyira kiakadnom? Miért nem tudom ezt csak úgy tudomásul venni és csinálni a dolgomat? Miért húz ez le? Miért megyek kómásként az irodában és miért nincsen semmi kedvem elindulni az irodába, és visszajönni ebédből? Miért nem tudom csak úgy élvezni az életet, ahogyan van?
Tuesday, December 9, 2008
Don't avoid the void
Don't avoid the void
"When we feel stuck, going nowhere -- even starting to slip backward -- we may actually be backing up to get a running start."
-- Dan Millman
To change, we must go through a transition zone. It's not easy being in transition. Thoughts, beliefs and habits are all in flux. It can create a sense of groundlessness, of being in a void that can be quite uncomfortable.
When we’re in the void, our first impulse will be to revert to old habits because they feel comfortable. Our goal is to hang in there until the change is complete. Knowing that TRANSITIONS ARE PART OF THE CHANGE PROCESS helps us muster the courage to put up with the discomfort, the uneasiness, the void.
Change requires a letting go of what we’ve always known and done to allow in something new. We need to trust ourselves and higher forces to unfold a new reality for us.
"Every positive change - every jump to a higher level of energy and awareness - involves a rite of passage. Each time to ascend to a higher rung on the ladder of personal evolution, we must go through a period of discomfort, of initiation. I have never found an exception."
-- Dan Millman
"When we feel stuck, going nowhere -- even starting to slip backward -- we may actually be backing up to get a running start."
-- Dan Millman
To change, we must go through a transition zone. It's not easy being in transition. Thoughts, beliefs and habits are all in flux. It can create a sense of groundlessness, of being in a void that can be quite uncomfortable.
When we’re in the void, our first impulse will be to revert to old habits because they feel comfortable. Our goal is to hang in there until the change is complete. Knowing that TRANSITIONS ARE PART OF THE CHANGE PROCESS helps us muster the courage to put up with the discomfort, the uneasiness, the void.
Change requires a letting go of what we’ve always known and done to allow in something new. We need to trust ourselves and higher forces to unfold a new reality for us.
"Every positive change - every jump to a higher level of energy and awareness - involves a rite of passage. Each time to ascend to a higher rung on the ladder of personal evolution, we must go through a period of discomfort, of initiation. I have never found an exception."
-- Dan Millman
Árral szemben úszni
Beszélgettem egy kollegámmal, aki mentorkodik egy gazdasági verseny egyik résztvevő csapata mellett. Azon panaszkodott,h a csapat mindig az árral szemben hoz döntéseket. Majd lementem a duna-partra ebédszünetben, és ott ugyanezt láttam: a víz ahelyett,h a vár felé haladt volna lefelé, úgy nézett ki,h felfelé indul és szentendrét célozza meg. A víz nagy része inkább az árral szemben haladt és nem a gravitáció törvényét követve magasabb helyről a mélyebb hely felé és végcélként a tengerhez indult útnak. Beugrott,h az emberek nagy része is pontosan ezt teszi, bármennyire is őrültségnek néz ki a folyó, mely felfelé halad, az ember ugyanígy ellent tesz az érzéseinek és a sorsának és megy egy teljesen más úton. Én pedig ugyanezt teszem. Pedig nem kéne. De már legalább észrevettem,h rossz irányba haladok. Már csak meg kell fordulni és elindulni abban az irányban.
Monday, December 8, 2008
¿If you dont love yourself how can you really love others?
"It's surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you're not comfortable within yourself, you can't be comfortable with others."
-- Sydney J. Harris
"We have the need to be accepted and to be loved by others, but we cannot accept and love ourselves. The more self-love we have, the less we will experience self-abuse. Self-abuse comes from self-rejection, and self-rejection comes from having an image of what it means to be perfect and never measuring up to that ideal. Our image of perfection is the reason we reject ourselves the way we are, and why we don't accept others the way they are."
-- Don Miguel Ruiz
-- Sydney J. Harris
"We have the need to be accepted and to be loved by others, but we cannot accept and love ourselves. The more self-love we have, the less we will experience self-abuse. Self-abuse comes from self-rejection, and self-rejection comes from having an image of what it means to be perfect and never measuring up to that ideal. Our image of perfection is the reason we reject ourselves the way we are, and why we don't accept others the way they are."
-- Don Miguel Ruiz
Sunday, December 7, 2008
When there is more in sight, we get more insights.
"The ultimate value of life depends upon awareness and the power of contemplation rather than upon mere survival."
-- Aristotle
INSIGHTS happen only when we shift to a higher, more inclusive perspective. As we grow in wisdom and experience, we become less attached to the form of reality and more aware of its spiritual side - its qualities, values and meaning. As we get to know ourselves as souls, we begin to let go of the self-consciousness of the ego. This allows us to more effectively include others and work with the whole picture.
Try becoming aware of those times when you focus on differences. At those times, STOP and PAY ATTENTION and IDENTIFY SIMILARITIES INSTEAD. See how all parts fit into a bigger picture. Expand your perspectives. Find common causes, motives and needs. Go to another level of thinking and problem solving. Be open to using more imagination and creativity. Shift your thinking from "either/or" to "both/and" and be prepared for more insights.
-- Aristotle
INSIGHTS happen only when we shift to a higher, more inclusive perspective. As we grow in wisdom and experience, we become less attached to the form of reality and more aware of its spiritual side - its qualities, values and meaning. As we get to know ourselves as souls, we begin to let go of the self-consciousness of the ego. This allows us to more effectively include others and work with the whole picture.
Try becoming aware of those times when you focus on differences. At those times, STOP and PAY ATTENTION and IDENTIFY SIMILARITIES INSTEAD. See how all parts fit into a bigger picture. Expand your perspectives. Find common causes, motives and needs. Go to another level of thinking and problem solving. Be open to using more imagination and creativity. Shift your thinking from "either/or" to "both/and" and be prepared for more insights.
Saturday, December 6, 2008
miért választjuk a biztos rosszat a bizonytalan jó helyett?
Anyával elmentünk a bükkbe ma délután. ahogy sétálgattunk, ránk sötétedett, és már hideg is volt. mikor elindultunk, megláttam egy hölgyet a buszmegálóban állva, de a busz itt elég ritkán jár, úgyh gondoltam elvihetnénk a városba. anyát nem is volt annyira nehéz meggyőzni, mint gondoltam volna. hát, visszatolattam, és megkérdeztük az idős hölgyet,h ha gondolja, elvisszük. hát, ő nem gondolta. szomorú volt látni rajta,h hiába két nő ül a kocsiba és örülne neki,h gyorsabban hazajutna, de mégiscsak fél és inkább megvárja a buszt, fagyoskodik még sokáig és zötykölődik haza. inkább a biztos rosszat választja a bizonytalan jó helyett.
furcsa volt később belátni,h mennyire kapcsolódott ez a kis jelenet az anyuval előtte folytatott beszélgetésemhez.
az emberek annyira gyakran választják a biztos rosszat a talán kevésbé biztos,egy kis rizikót magában foglaló, de mindenképpen jobb dolog helyett. miért vagyunk ilyenek? miért gondolunk annyit a jövőre ahelyett,h csak azt tennénk, ami jól esik, amit szeretünk tenni??? lehetséges,h a holnapot már meg se éljük, akkor miért az alapján dönteni? miért mindig a jövőben bekövetköző lehetséges események irányítanak minket?
mi éri meg jobban? szenvedni csak azért mert az biztos, vagy elengedni vmi biztosat vmi jobbnak a reménye érdekében? ha jobban belegondolsz, életed több pontjára is igaz ez a kérdés. arra kérlek, gondolj bele egy kicsit. mit tettél eddig? a biztos jót vagy a bizonytalan jót választottad inkább a korábban bekövetkezett döntési helyzetekben? a döntés következtében jobban érezted magad vagy rosszabbul? megváltoztatnád a korábbi döntésed, ha visszamehetnél az időben?
furcsa volt később belátni,h mennyire kapcsolódott ez a kis jelenet az anyuval előtte folytatott beszélgetésemhez.
az emberek annyira gyakran választják a biztos rosszat a talán kevésbé biztos,egy kis rizikót magában foglaló, de mindenképpen jobb dolog helyett. miért vagyunk ilyenek? miért gondolunk annyit a jövőre ahelyett,h csak azt tennénk, ami jól esik, amit szeretünk tenni??? lehetséges,h a holnapot már meg se éljük, akkor miért az alapján dönteni? miért mindig a jövőben bekövetköző lehetséges események irányítanak minket?
mi éri meg jobban? szenvedni csak azért mert az biztos, vagy elengedni vmi biztosat vmi jobbnak a reménye érdekében? ha jobban belegondolsz, életed több pontjára is igaz ez a kérdés. arra kérlek, gondolj bele egy kicsit. mit tettél eddig? a biztos jót vagy a bizonytalan jót választottad inkább a korábban bekövetkezett döntési helyzetekben? a döntés következtében jobban érezted magad vagy rosszabbul? megváltoztatnád a korábbi döntésed, ha visszamehetnél az időben?
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Money is not required to buy one necessity of the soul
"What is the role of money in the search for meaning? Is our relationship to it one of the chief factors that keeps us in our prison, or could it also be a tool for breaking out, for awakening to a life filled with intensity of purpose?"
-- Jacob Needleman
Our personality has a need for security. As a human in a material world, we need money to survive. If we don’t have enough for basics, our lives cannot function. At the same time, with too much emphasis on the material, we loose the spiritual awareness that brings meaning and fulfillment. The key lies in the balance.
What draws most of your attention, time and energy: spiritual growth or money?
Think it over. You should just balance this two things. Without spriritual growth you do not fulfil the meaning of your life, you just earn money to earn money, to feed your kids and travel later to places you wanna go to. If you only focus on spiritual growth you dont have anything to live from, and you can starve as you dont earn any money as you can see on some spiritual teachers who didnt write bestseller books. yet.
So you should keep in mind earning some money to fulfill your basic survival needs besides focusing on your spiritual growth. Dont work in a place which kills your soul as you cannot spend any time with it, but still earn enough money to feed yourself and the ones you should take care of.
-- Jacob Needleman
Our personality has a need for security. As a human in a material world, we need money to survive. If we don’t have enough for basics, our lives cannot function. At the same time, with too much emphasis on the material, we loose the spiritual awareness that brings meaning and fulfillment. The key lies in the balance.
What draws most of your attention, time and energy: spiritual growth or money?
Think it over. You should just balance this two things. Without spriritual growth you do not fulfil the meaning of your life, you just earn money to earn money, to feed your kids and travel later to places you wanna go to. If you only focus on spiritual growth you dont have anything to live from, and you can starve as you dont earn any money as you can see on some spiritual teachers who didnt write bestseller books. yet.
So you should keep in mind earning some money to fulfill your basic survival needs besides focusing on your spiritual growth. Dont work in a place which kills your soul as you cannot spend any time with it, but still earn enough money to feed yourself and the ones you should take care of.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Knowing others is wisdom; knowing the self is enlightenment
STOP AND PAY ATTENTION! Set an intention to be more aware. Become a watcher, of yourself and what’s around you. Develop the witness, the part of you that can step back from life and impartially observe how you react and think and feel. We learn so much about who we are!
There are different ways to step back from life and to dig into yourself. You just need to find the way which suits YOU the best.
One way for me was the camino and being closed to nature just for jogging or walking or sit at the riverside. But nowadays i am hardly able to step back from life. There is something that i do not want to see?
There are different ways to step back from life and to dig into yourself. You just need to find the way which suits YOU the best.
One way for me was the camino and being closed to nature just for jogging or walking or sit at the riverside. But nowadays i am hardly able to step back from life. There is something that i do not want to see?
Monday, December 1, 2008
What you must dare is to be yourself
"It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. ...I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing."
-- Oriah Mountain Dreamer
"Let me listen to me and not to them."
-- Gertrude Stein
-- Oriah Mountain Dreamer
"Let me listen to me and not to them."
-- Gertrude Stein
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